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The sweet spot between fight or flight

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Recently I was trying to plan something and for some reason, everything kept falling apart. The more I tried to fix it, newer and unexpected issues kept cropping up. And then I realized I was trying too hard - I was fighting and stressing to fix the issue.

I had to take a step back and just accept that there is a reason as to why nothing was working. There were some compromises to be made to my original plan and I decided to go with it without any fight or resistance.

Surprise! Surprise! Things worked out way better than I had even planned for. When you trust the Universe and let go of the control a little bit and allow the universe to take over, it can be magical. 

On another occasion, a while back, I tried to change my place of work because of its multiple limitations. I was frustrated and angry, and left the place with all these emotions boiling inside me and went to a new place.

I understood within a few months that though the place was new, I had carried forward most of the problems with me here too. I was so busy trying to escape from the old place that I did not stop to make peace, accept and maybe even be grateful for at least the learning experience I got from there, before moving on to another job.

I finally realized what was happening. I was running from job to job, so busy trying to escape that I did not even notice that I was carrying all my baggage with me on my flight process.

In both situations, the moment I accepted the problem, made peace with and tried to work with the problem, instead of against it either by fighting or trying to escape from it by fleeing, things became so much simpler, smoother and definitely easier.

Of course, it did take me some time and a lot of practice to get into the space of not instinctively reacting but pausing, taking a deep breath, accepting and then acting accordingly. 

That's the sweet spot between fight and flight - pause, deep breath and acceptance. The moment you make your peace with any problem, the energy of the problem has to change. Divine intervention will happen and there will be a noticeable shift.

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